COVID-19 Update

I never imagined my Microbiology background would become so relevant in recent times as the Pandemic of Covid 19 ingrains our daily life and specifically my business of consulting seniors and their families.

The media has given varied information as the virus made its way around the world, wreaking havoc in some areas more than others. Viruses do like to mutate and I have recently learned about susceptibility based on our own genetics besides underlying medical conditions.

What seemed to be lock downs based on ‘flattening the curve’ of cases as to not overwhelm the hospitals, has appeared to only delay the results in some states. I believe in our freedom to choose as well as respect the health of others. Striking a balance of common sense is the only way I know to proceed in helping my senior community while protecting their health and well-being.

Looking back, I am concerned about what we will realize about the sudden isolation effect on our elderly. Human contact seems to be a necessity at the beginning of life and in the last years as well. The caregivers, for those in facilities or at home with help, will become life lines in so many ways. Those residing independently and alone may have an even harder road.

During these months since the pandemic, I have also experienced blessings and ways to connect and help others:

Personally, my husband and I were treated to ice cream from a stranger in the car ahead of us in a drive through that paid for us! We paid forward recently by tipping generously to an elderly lady serving people in a drive through as they were short staffed.

Encouraging cards I received and mailed to others are a way to lift spirits and remind folks of their self-worth at any age.

In North Idaho, I have been so aware of the kindness shown from drivers in delayed traffic to let you in line.

The unexpected phone calls of appreciation from families encourage me that I am making a positive difference. Who would benefit from a call today since we seem to have more time?

My mother, Lois, is in memory care in an assisted living out of state. I found a stuffed dog that looked very much like our childhood pup that I knew would surprise and yet be something to cuddle while being separated from family. Many seniors’ memories are tied to the past, what would bring a fun memory for them to enjoy again?

Keeping up with changes required state-wide for Senior communities is an ongoing check for me. Depending on state and local health department restrictions and recommendations, plus other factors such as size and the different facility owners comfort level, dictates what measures are in place to protect their residents while allowing for a way for families to connect.

Besides the through the window while on the phone option, some are incorporating outside meetings with masks and social distancing with up to two family members. Others are allowing one visitor with a mask to enter. Of course, much will be based on changing numbers of local cases or if someone is tested positive in the community.

My long- term ties with senior services businesses in the five northern counties of Idaho, created the benefit of administrators and owners giving me heads up of openings or changes. All phone calls and situations are welcomed. Think of me as a sounding board to process how to proceed and prioritize when a Seniors needs become apparent. The pandemic has not stopped aging and life’s transitions.

The calm can come from having a plan, knowing where to start! I equip those who call with ideas and direct contact info all from a third- party perspective.

Our community has an abundance of caring folks I am privileged to know through the years with running Compassionate Care Referral Services.

Tamara Jacobson

Founder & President